i like to help people out, and i had people coming up to me with some issues and i gave them advices ,i wanted to share my thoughts, i hope it will help.
1.You are always alone in life
what i mean is, ones you loved will always be around you in your bad days and good days. real friends and family will be there for you in your worst days, but will they really be there when you are out of control, will they put their lives before you, to protect you? you will understand what i mean if you experience it ,what i means is you always have to be able to send on your two feet in every condition,
You can’t depend on people. You have to be strong individual.
2.You shouldn’t repeat your mistakes
If you keep doing the same mistakes, its almost like you are living in the past, because you have to go over the same path every time.
3.People never change
Don’t try to change people, people never change. They will act like they changed, once you turn your back they will go back to way they are. People will only change when they want not because you said so.
4.If people show their selves bad believe them
If they are bad and hurt others they will do that you also on day because they are heartless, when they go crazy they don’t see anything. They will hurt you, your feelings. Don’t think maybe they are good inside, no they are bad believe them. Don’t wait until it happens to you just run.
5.You can only get better, when you want to help yourself
if you are sad depressed or cant get your stuff together to do something, don’t wait for someones help, life couch, physiologists, religions people. they cant talk to you for an hours but if you don’t take action you will stay in same spot. you have to realize first you need to help your self, and you should want to get better and work hard to be better, try and not give up.
6.Life is not perfect but not bad either
life is not all about flowers, lollypops etc. life is hard, everything could go wrong in a minute. but it doesn’t mean everything is over, and you shouldn’t give up. you have to be strong for yourself first, you have to believe in yourself. for example babies fall down when they start to learn to walk, but time to time they learn how to stand on their feet and start running. same thing, you have to believe in yourself and you shouldn’t give up.
7.Every mistake is a lesson
Don’t punish yourself for your mistakes. Every mistake you make in life will teach you something. You will learn not to make them again, you will learn not to trust, how to protect, how to choose , etc., but they will make you a stronger person, in future you will learn how to handle your situations.
8.dont live in the past
Look farther, there is so many things you are missing. If you live in the past one day you will look back and say, i did nothing for years. and you cant take the time back. Take action do it now. don’t waist anytime, life is short.
9.dont blame anybody, your biggest enemy is always yourself
maybe you let that happen or maybe not. Now you are not helping yourself to get over it, If you think like that forget it. learn to forgive, try to be better, an higher person. God says forgive people be a good person, do it. You will fell better when you forgive people, because psychologically, you will fell like a better person and you will be a better person.
10. Dont hurt yourself
Don’t hurt yourself, don’t beat yourself up with your words and actions. You deserve better. You can do so much better. Always believe everything is going to be okay, You have a long and beautiful things to live for, they will happen if youbelieve and take an action, learn how to protect your self from your bad thoughts. if you start to think try to clear your head.
11. be a good person
try to help people out, with anything. be good person, good things happen to good people. When you help earth or God what ever you believe in will return your favors, they do happen. And getting thank you’s and appreciations, will make you feel so good.
you can do anything, but first you have to want it make it an action. dont give up, you